My H's MLC #2

[GoatGal]

Ssarah,

Don't feel guilty about doing what you need to do to protect yourself.

The fact is, you can't trust him right now.

I'm the same way, I was always transparent, had nothing to hide. It was a matter of integrity with me.

I've had to learn to play it closer to the vest.
It doesn't make you a bad person, just a wiser one.

As for "The Script", I was told that after a divorce, the fact that he'd lose almost half his income, the house, and we'd have to re-home the animals, that we would no longer be able to care for them... (All this FACT, per my lawyer), H yelled in my ear:

"This is all just YOUR DRAMA!!!!!!"

And the few times I tried to get him to follow his path through to the end to make sure he's thought it through, he didn't, for whatever reason.

Except there was no reason.
He had a picture in his head and that didn't seem to include reality!


Be strong, Ssarah!

--GGG