Job, I did read the pursuer/distancer thread a while back but I definitely needed a refresher so thank you. I defintiely struggle with keeping my wall up when he's pleasant and like his "old self". I forget about MLC for a moment and think maybe he's coming back and then wam, I get smacked over the head again.

I'm just curious. In your years of navigating this site, has anyone reconciled with their MLCer after a D? I know it's mentioned as a possibility but has it actually happened. As Train said the D is never amicable and so I don't see how anyone comes back together with that much extra fuel added to the fire.


Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home