^^ I don't think PMs work. They discourage us having contact outside the board. (If u think about it, it makes sense. I'm guessing many people would lean on someone else here because we're all facing the same pain, and then one thing leads to another, and... Not very interested in fixing my M because I found this other person who knows the pain I'm feeling and we're never gonna treat each other that way, etc.)

It would be great to have a real convo with some people on here. Not sure what the rules are on the Facebook page.


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5