You right zew . Thx Im still struggling with some control issues that werent there until i found out she was cheating . She came and went when ever and where ever before the A . It wasnt until i found out about the A that I started being controlling , for obvious reasons , That was before DBing came along . And Im trying with everything in me to stay the course even though i dont see much progress


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )