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Re: How am I doing this ? dawgy #2467198 07/09/14 12:49 PM
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zew Member Z Joined: Feb 2014 Posts: 628	Quote: I'm having trouble not knowing what's going on because i've detached You may have stopped snooping, but you certainly haven't detached. Detaching is not being reactive to everything she does, and you are still clearly hitched to her wagon. Focus more on what you are doing and can do to better your frame of mind. Focus on fixing what you know was wrong with your M (only those things that you can work on independently, of course) Quote: Well I know coffee means to be with OM so I casually said " off to see him eh?" Stop doing this. You can't casually say that. You accused her. It may be true that she's off to see him, but you can't change that, and being snarky or judgmental about it will not help your case.

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How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/04/14 11:15 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Maybell	07/04/14 11:20 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/04/14 11:36 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Maybell	07/04/14 11:46 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/04/14 12:26 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Maybell	07/04/14 12:43 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	GoatGal	07/04/14 01:23 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/04/14 01:52 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	GoatGal	07/04/14 01:54 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/04/14 02:11 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/04/14 07:13 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/05/14 01:24 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	nit84	07/05/14 02:59 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/07/14 11:11 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/08/14 11:02 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Old Dog	07/08/14 12:19 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/08/14 07:04 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Meghan	07/08/14 10:06 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/09/14 01:56 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/09/14 11:15 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/09/14 12:49 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/09/14 01:40 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/10/14 02:59 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/10/14 01:22 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/10/14 02:04 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/10/14 05:00 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/10/14 06:22 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/10/14 06:30 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/11/14 01:56 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/13/14 03:12 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/14/14 01:35 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	CS000	07/14/14 02:31 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/14/14 12:00 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Heart14	07/14/14 12:30 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/14/14 12:36 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/14/14 12:52 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/14/14 01:45 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/15/14 04:21 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/16/14 05:45 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	justwok	07/16/14 09:11 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/16/14 11:05 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	MrBond	07/16/14 11:08 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/16/14 11:12 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	MrBond	07/16/14 11:17 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/17/14 02:36 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Riley	07/17/14 04:09 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/21/14 04:30 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	sandi2	07/21/14 06:05 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/21/14 06:57 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/22/14 03:41 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	HeadUp	07/22/14 04:44 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/23/14 11:14 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/23/14 11:41 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/23/14 02:47 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/24/14 03:26 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/24/14 11:00 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Old Dog	07/24/14 09:24 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/25/14 04:41 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/25/14 10:43 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/29/14 08:25 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/30/14 05:53 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/30/14 06:01 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/30/14 06:06 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	kat727	07/30/14 06:13 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/30/14 06:22 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/30/14 06:28 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Starsky309	07/30/14 06:30 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/30/14 06:31 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/30/14 06:49 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/30/14 11:48 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/31/14 03:08 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/31/14 12:36 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Ggrass	07/31/14 12:36 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	SunnyB	07/31/14 01:08 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 03:59 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 04:04 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 04:05 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 04:39 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	kat727	07/31/14 05:31 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 05:38 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	sandi2	07/31/14 07:57 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	u-turn	07/31/14 08:04 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/31/14 08:12 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	u-turn	07/31/14 08:19 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/31/14 08:29 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	2Times2Many	07/31/14 08:52 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	08/01/14 11:07 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	08/01/14 11:51 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	u-turn	08/01/14 12:22 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	u-turn	07/31/14 05:42 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 05:47 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	kat727	07/31/14 06:02 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	u-turn	07/31/14 06:05 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 06:13 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 06:20 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 06:36 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/31/14 07:22 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 07:39 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/31/14 07:50 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/30/14 06:19 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/21/14 06:07 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	sandi2	07/13/14 11:20 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/14/14 12:31 AM
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