This one about the holding of the glass.... When her MLC started, my W couldn't sleep but maybe 2-3 hours a night. She would tell me how she would wake every night worrying about this or that. She still does this now that she has moved away. How can a person EVER be "happy" going through this night after night? How can they EVER find peace when they can't stop thinking what MAY happen? The worst thing WE can do is JOIN them in this craziness! I guess the thing is beware of the old adage "If you can't beat them, Join them", the last thing I want to do is join in HER craziness!!
