Maybe I missed it elsewhere, but I've looked and can't find the answer.
How do the rules and DBing in general fit in the context of marriage counseling?
We're in counseling, and my main concerns are that I tend to cry because things get really emotional with the pointed questions.
On top of that, we're supposed to be talking about our relationship in detail and from both sides. It's especially hard to successfully do things like validating H.'s experiences of resentment and his issues when I'm being asked to talk about my points, too.
Is it possible to both follow the rules and to go through marriage counseling together?
M - 34 H - 36 Together 10 years Married 4 years BD - March, 2014
