The real twist with DB....is that we all start it to save our marriages but that isn't really what happens. As I told my girlfriend last night as we discussed this site, DB in the end isn't about saving the marriage it is about saving yourself.
Maybe saving yourself saves the marriage....but even if the marriage ends, if you do the work you will be a better a person.
Focus on saving you...and everything else will fall into place accordingly as it should.
