Not dating. And I would not really call it dinner. It was at Moes Southwest Grill. I take my kids there every Tuesday night (free kids night). It has been a tradition for a couple years. A little more difficult where I live now because the closest one is 45 minutes away. The person who joined us was the same girl I invited to our kids bday party the first week we started our S and my wife was there as well. W does not know that it was her who I was with. I am reasonably certain she may suspect, but honestly I am not concerned. This girl and I are friends...nothing physical. IF the texting stopped as a reaction to her learning I was meeting someone for dinner, I would think it odd/hypocritical for her to take that position. But there is no certainty she was reacting negatively to that news. Perhaps she had planned to not text anymore for the rest of the day anyways.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16