Long term marriage - husband quit!

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I have done NOTHING to warrant the amount of venom and bile he spews.

Are other WS this aggressive? Have any ever "turned" back to reconcile? I find this level of hostility unsettling. but some people say it is fairly normal at this stage????

Yea, they can be. Remember, a lot of times the WS has spent months or years being frustrated to the point they become WAS. They will direct a lot of anger at you. Some may be deserved, some not. Just remember....believe nothing they say, and only half of what they do.

Their anger will pass in time. How much time depends....