No names, no loosing my temper (even when he talking about OW)
I said "leave me out of your affair".

Did not argue about daughter.
Did not let him off hook for his behaviors.

....deserve a cookie.

Me: 48
H: 48
Married 26 , together 30
D1: 21
D2: 18
"Happily Married" until BD
4 weeks later: "Im talking to someone"
No papers filed.
Attempting 180, finding it difficult.