Well, he came to the house, to see DD18 post hospital visit. She refused him.

He came into my room to talk to me. All over the boards. I told him how his actions have hurt me, I mournED him like he died. He "said" he understood"

He then started on a rant of critique, I showed him a sad, but accepting spouse.
Tears sad, but not "PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE come back!"

he said he was filing-- whatever--

got some hair up his b - hind -- oh yeah, he saw the voice recorder on dresser (it was not turned on)

Points I made:
Everyone I exposed to loves him and would not hinder reconciliation.
My friend Terry was getting worse, (Parkinsons) - she cried because how upsetting this is, and she loves you-
We could try again. with Father Wayne. (but not over the top begging -- )

he stormed out, I stood by his car ==
he started in again, (listing all my faults and my neglect) I threw up my hands, said goodby and walked into house.

Last edited by bugsby; 07/09/14 12:40 AM.
Me: 48
H: 48
Married 26 , together 30
D1: 21
D2: 18
"Happily Married" until BD
4 weeks later: "Im talking to someone"
No papers filed.
Attempting 180, finding it difficult.