What you are witnessing is the distance/pursuer game. They come closer when we distance and when we come closer to them, they distance themselves from us. Did you read the thread on Distance and Pursuit? If not, here's the link to it:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=714209

Last edited by job; 07/08/14 11:19 PM.