Maybell - Yes, but that was just my guessing. I know this person is not well off - probably younger - the complex was nice once but older and in need of renovations.

late 20's -30's probably....

Ben2010 - I mean like he can't stand to be near me. The more I bless him - the more pissed he gets! It has taken such a toll, I have decided the best place to be is just OUT OF HIS firing range.. so sad! not like the man I knew for 30 years...

I know he is trying to "drive me away" I know he wants me to "fight". I don't even validate what he says, anymore - I pretty much let it go...

He wants this other woman right now. The "love o meter" is at full tilt - with this "high caliber woman" he is sharing this apartment with.

getting out of the line of fire was my goal - hopefully until the "shine" wears off the affair....
IDK, tho. It is pretty abusive..
like a body chemistry flip.

Last edited by bugsby; 07/08/14 10:26 PM.

Me: 48
H: 48
Married 26 , together 30
D1: 21
D2: 18
"Happily Married" until BD
4 weeks later: "Im talking to someone"
No papers filed.
Attempting 180, finding it difficult.