I think in my case H has been ending, or trying to end the R with OW for quite a while. It's a tough process, especially for the LBS! H and I are reconnecting quite a bit now but it's been 4 months since D-day and when he supposedly ended it with OW (I suspect things may have continued on some level since D-day but slowly declining). He is SO uncertain about me, which is also tough, but I'm trying to stick to working on ME and being the wife that he would be a fool to leave. At the very least I know I will have done everything I could to save things and ultimately, I will be a super fantastic significant other to *someone*.
Stay the course, you are awesome at this DBing thing, you can do it!
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
