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Re: How am I doing this ? dawgy #2467047 07/08/14 10:06 PM
Joined: Jul 2014 Posts: 347 M Meghan Member
Meghan Member M Joined: Jul 2014 Posts: 347	I think what you're seeing as control is an illusion. For me, one of the hardest things to come to terms with is the feelings of loss of control and the desire to fix things, change his perspective, argue my points, and know exactly what's going on. Focus on controlling yourself as opposed to focusing on controlling the situation. Also, try not to assume what she's thinking and feeling - keep detaching. M - 34 H - 36 Together 10 years Married 4 years BD - March, 2014

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How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/04/14 11:15 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Maybell	07/04/14 11:20 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/04/14 11:36 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Maybell	07/04/14 11:46 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/04/14 12:26 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Maybell	07/04/14 12:43 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	GoatGal	07/04/14 01:23 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/04/14 01:52 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	GoatGal	07/04/14 01:54 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/04/14 02:11 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/04/14 07:13 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/05/14 01:24 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	nit84	07/05/14 02:59 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/07/14 11:11 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/08/14 11:02 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Old Dog	07/08/14 12:19 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/08/14 07:04 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Meghan	07/08/14 10:06 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/09/14 01:56 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/09/14 11:15 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/09/14 12:49 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/09/14 01:40 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/10/14 02:59 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/10/14 01:22 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/10/14 02:04 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/10/14 05:00 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/10/14 06:22 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	zew	07/10/14 06:30 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/11/14 01:56 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/13/14 03:12 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/14/14 01:35 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	CS000	07/14/14 02:31 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/14/14 12:00 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Heart14	07/14/14 12:30 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/14/14 12:36 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/14/14 12:52 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/14/14 01:45 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/15/14 04:21 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/16/14 05:45 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	justwok	07/16/14 09:11 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/16/14 11:05 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	MrBond	07/16/14 11:08 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/16/14 11:12 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	MrBond	07/16/14 11:17 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/17/14 02:36 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Riley	07/17/14 04:09 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/21/14 04:30 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	sandi2	07/21/14 06:05 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/21/14 06:57 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/22/14 03:41 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	HeadUp	07/22/14 04:44 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/23/14 11:14 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/23/14 11:41 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/23/14 02:47 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/24/14 03:26 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/24/14 11:00 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Old Dog	07/24/14 09:24 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/25/14 04:41 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/25/14 10:43 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/29/14 08:25 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/30/14 05:53 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/30/14 06:01 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/30/14 06:06 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	kat727	07/30/14 06:13 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/30/14 06:22 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/30/14 06:28 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Starsky309	07/30/14 06:30 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/30/14 06:31 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/30/14 06:49 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/30/14 11:48 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	PeterV2	07/31/14 03:08 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/31/14 12:36 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Ggrass	07/31/14 12:36 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	SunnyB	07/31/14 01:08 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 03:59 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 04:04 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 04:05 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 04:39 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	kat727	07/31/14 05:31 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 05:38 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	sandi2	07/31/14 07:57 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	u-turn	07/31/14 08:04 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/31/14 08:12 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	u-turn	07/31/14 08:19 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/31/14 08:29 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	2Times2Many	07/31/14 08:52 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	08/01/14 11:07 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	08/01/14 11:51 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	u-turn	08/01/14 12:22 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	u-turn	07/31/14 05:42 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 05:47 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	kat727	07/31/14 06:02 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	u-turn	07/31/14 06:05 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 06:13 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 06:20 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 06:36 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/31/14 07:22 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/31/14 07:39 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/31/14 07:50 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/30/14 06:19 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	dawgy	07/21/14 06:07 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	sandi2	07/13/14 11:20 PM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Eatsma	07/14/14 12:31 AM
Re: How am I doing this ?	Gotan74	07/17/14 01:26 AM

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