Sex was great, then we married part 3

[GoatGal]

OK.

Let's call it a "Sex Starved Marriage".

Now what?
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Grey,
If you pay no attention to anything else I've said, please pay attention to this:

I agree, participating in therapy is an excellent way to gain insight into ourselves and our actions. It was never really clear to me why you were there, but it's none of my business.

In any case, I do hope you follow up with your therapist about these conversations, because lack of sexual frequency is not the only problem on the table.

If conversations with your W are in any way similar to the ones you've had here, you have much bigger issues to cope with.
There is something you're dealing with that is making this especially difficult for you--whatever that may be.
You're probably not even aware of it.

I'm saying that as kindly as I can and I do not mean to upset you at all. I am saying this from a place of compassion. I hope that comes across.

And if you read back, I have never been condescending or dismissive of you.

Perhaps you missed some of my attempts at humor, but I've only ever tried to help you from my heart.

I hope you can see that because it's the truth.

But I'm all in.

Best of luck to you,

--GG