Taking the Asperger's test at my therapist's office for example--------that's something I never would have thought of or known to do. I don't have it apparently, or may be borderline, but I did it because you advised me to, know what I mean? That's not the only thing I have thought about, changed, or brought to my therapist explicitly because of information and advice I was graciously given here, but for now, I'm just being patient. It feels like idling in a car waiting for it to stop raining, despite being happy with my W and my M. Waiting [censored], and I don't know how long to wait before asking again about what to do next, that's all. I love your stories and I really do appreciate you talking with me.