And when I mentioned "fixing" I didn't mean trying to fix her life or problems, I mean and tried to explain that I would be there to help with her problems in any possible way I could, always. I'm not sure what problems were assumed, but from the introduction of the idea all I could think was medical problems----problems out of our control but problems that I could help and that people help their loved ones with, not total loss of libido or finding a new job problems, know what I mean?
