I've been reading a lot about not rushing this process. If he's not truly there yet, you want to be really careful.
As you said, there is a lot that hasn't yet been dealt with and he's still triggering all over the place.
I think it's great that you two are moving forward.
Nice and Easy Does It!
--GG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?