Cross country DB with WAS

[Anders]

Having a plan:
Hitting the reset button has not been easy these past three months. I have set myself a timeline to keep my hot head in check. I have made so many mistakes in this journey. I am trying to see these as learning opportunities but can't help but kick myself for being so impatient and not having a better understanding of where we were in our journey.

I really didn't have a plan before. This made evaluating progress a random thing which wafted depending on how I was feeling. Which led to so many poor decisions and actions.

My long term goals:
1. To have a great relationship with God.
2. To have a great relationship with myself.
3. To have great relationships with my W, children, family and friends.

To support these, I need:
1. To have and sustain a good level of energy: emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually and financially.
2. Do things that I am passionate about.
3. Look after myself.
4. To forgive myself.
5. To forgive her.