Wife in MLC and getting ready to leave #6

[Ssarah]

Matt165, I didn't realize your Ws MLC is already 3 years deep. I commend you for standing that long. I don't know how you do it. I'm only 3 months from BD and I can't imagine doing this for so long. I wonder the same, how my H who was always so honest, loving, humble, supportive and generally good, could be so deceitful, manipulative, selfish, and destructive. If there was only some magic mirror we could put in front of them to so they could see who they've become. As for the furniture, at a certain point I would draw a line somewhere. Bad feelings or not, if you feel strongly about it, you'll have to sit down with her and hash out who gets what. I know it's not easy, since I have a list of things I need to discuss with H and it hasn't yet happened.