i had one counseling session. i am not sure if more or needed. my w filed pfa and divorce a day after taking a large amount of money from me. PRAY for me to win the PFA case tomorrow. She has lied to kick me out of my house. I cannot contact her and she looks at me so cold like we never met.

my w has been keeping daily two hour combined conversations with OM since last January 2012 as i discovered from phone bills lately. She denies to others that anything is going on there. i have no clue if it is physical or emotional infidelity. they both have facebook blocked me and i was never even friends with the OM.

Lawyer and priest say move on. the DB coach says get a life. i see a therapist to prove i am not the evil person she alleges. I have all my friends betraying me taking money not repaying loans. i dont know what to do. i go to church still. i need suggestions to make friends. i am 33. what to do. i need to be a better person for me and hopefully she learns of it somehow through the universe. i actually still love her because we have 11 years together and only the last 2 has she been distant.