I am in a group of 15 women. All ages. All walks of life... beautiful women. One would have to shake their heads and think what the hell is wrong with these men??

My person goals lately have included trying to become less judgmental.

I believe too that people are brought into your life for a reason. we gain, we learn something. maybe we somehow give...idk.

one of the women, a young woman, divorced her h. said they were incompatible to begin with. before her d, she said she was involved in an A with a M man. only when the A was exposed did she d from her h. the om also d. I did not hear if they were together. What i understood from her is that she too was in a lot of pain.

I listened to her story thinking to myself, why is she here? telling her story, i want to judge her and not like her. I don't want to cross paths with...

she too is a person in pain.

just been thinking on this a lot. why is this person stuck in my head?


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13