Just remember that you initiated this journey and you're going to have to let this play out now. I'm not saying that you didn't have valid reasons for visualizing your freedom... so keep on being a loving friend to see if this doesn't change things for her.
You can only control you, so just wait and see. How were your last communications with her?
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."