I know all this has been said before, and I know repeating it is not worth anything.
I just can't believe W thinks I'm not making an effort. Again Sandi, you are correct. I have heard such utter nonsense from her and the posse over the last 6 months. I don't know why I give any of it a second thought.
If you look 3 posts back at #2466597, I'm more in the mindset of 1 more month rather than 13. Why? Because I agree with you that nothing is missing in her life that she cares about, and so nothing will change. It is not good use of my time.
Also, I can't risk the 13. I need room for something to try, then fail, with room to spare. That's a more effective use of my time.
If anything is going to happen, it can happen with real stakes on the table. She will determine if she really doesn't care if I'm gone. If she cares, she'll make a move. If nothing happens, I get my time back.
