Cross country DB with WAS

[Anders]

Jan-Feb 2014: I propose we initiate short phone conversations. She says she is still not sure about us and does not want to promise me anything. She does say it is okay for me to visit her in Feb.

Feb 2014: A couple of calls which went well. W slowly starts talking about future and asks me a few questions about us. By the time I visit, she surprises me by calling me 'honey' as she used to but had not been for the past year. She cuddles up to me while we are on the couch and uses references about 'us' which she had not been doing.

By the end of my visit, I am feeling overly confident that we are getting back on track. My mistake in rushing the process. I tell her about the plan for me to rent out our home here and for me to move down to join her. She asks if I am telling her or asking her. It is a proposal I tell her for discussion. However, she doesn't confirm either way by the time I leave.