I don't get it. Really? Nobody is hearing the good things I've done, plus nobody thinks sex is important ENOUGH to take seriously.
Bond, you focus too much on the words and not enough on what they mean. I said "fix" and that's another no-no word for you it sounds like. I'm sorry. I never know when that's going to happen, but I do try to avoid it when I can.
Then you said my wife is sick? Again? She has diabetes, not cholera.
If you don't want to help with my problem, don't get mad at me following advice from the creator of the site we're writing on when it comes to talking about people's needs. I haven't mentioned anything about wanting it, you're inferring it but all I've been talking about is essentially how to talk about it here instead, and that's a separate problem. Yes, I bring up sex as the problem BECAUSE that's the problem--------my wife isn't blind, or dying, or unable to walk or any other hypothetical situation I've been asked about whether or not I would care for her.
Instead, my wife does have problems AND I help her deal with them. It's like you missed the part where I didn't bring up sex or worry about it the entire weekend we enjoyed together too, know what I mean?
GG, you go out to FEEL wanted, even if you don't think you do anything that crosses any boundaries yet. And that's good! I don't feel that though, and itsn't that what I've repeated is the trick? Like, if my wife couldn't have sex with me being different from her not WANTING to, which wasn't the question but that's the difference isn't it? You weren't having sex with those guys who helped make your weekend fun and exciting, right? I'm with you on that one---I think I'd much rather be wanted but without sex than have unwanted sex.
