Don't get me wrong, Kimmerz. That friend of mine? She found herself on the floor sobbing during all of this. It was not a good scene. She was angry and upset and still a bit angry if you ask me.
What changed? He did.
Without that, they wouldn't even so much as talk. I should know, I don't talk to my ex if I can help it. Why? Because she is still abusive etc. If she wasn't, it wouldn't bother me to have a conversation with her. I almost did last night regarding my son getting his license. But as I played it out, I thought better of it. It's just no longer worth talking to her or her husband.
For some people, that's the point that leads to a chance to regain a relationship of some sort. For others, not so much.
Feeling upset about it or nauseous? I get it, but that eventually goes away. It becomes a moot point and you simply either talk or do not.
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I think being alone is very tough, but infinitely preferable to being with the wrong person.
Amen, sister. Sing it!!!
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
