She says she's conflicted (part 2)

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Ox I know that you cant see this but the affair sounds like it may die of its own weight, just let go and let her flounder on her own.

I think you are actually starting to make some progress, but dont backslide, you can't fix her or change her, she must do that on her own.

You dont want her back unless she makes the changes to herself.

This wife, the way she is right now, is NOT what you want.

You want her new and improved version.

She will not change over night, give her the space to improve herself.

OK?

Thanks Cadet. That's what I am trying to do right now. Our MC agrees with you.

I have been reading and trying to just fix my issues. I just have to bite my tongue and I am getting better at it.

For example today she called me from work while we were on the phone she said a patient was calling her and she had better get it or they would keep calling...I knew " who" the "patient" was.

I so much wanted to say..I did not know you dealt with mental patients ...

But I did not say it...I kept my mouth shut and ignored it...