Hey CC - after today things can only get better right? positive mental attitude. This can be a turning point for you, choose to find happiness and inner peace. I'm now thanking my exH for divorcing me because it opened me up to so many new opportunities and possibilities! Thinking of you, I know it is difficult.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
positive mental attitude. This can be a turning point for you, choose to find happiness and inner peace. I'm now thanking my exH for divorcing me because it opened me up to so many new opportunities and possibilities! 
Thinking of you, I know it is difficult.