It's the "IF" part. IF she was physically unable to have the type of sexual relationship you desire, would you stay with her?
You answered "yes". Good answer!
What if it's not a "physical inability"? What if it's just her? What then?
Again, you're still focused on "helping" her "fix it". 1. You can't fix this for another person. 2. The solution is to change your thinking and perceptions about the problem. This seems to be where you're getting stuck.
As for "fixing it"... Who is that for, exactly?
Is she happy with the way things are?
If she is, why should she "fix" anything?
Just food for thought.
--GG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
