Originally Posted By: labug
I was wondering about how things went. Glad to read that the only development is she wants a dog.

A dog is a lifelong commitment and everything you say is correct.

Open up a conversation with her about it, no agenda (your concerns)other than finding out what having a dog means to her. Information seeking.

Then take time to think about it and ask more if you need to.



I posted before I saw this labug. It's funny, I learned another good lesson about assumptions and expectations, as what I had assumed/expected from W upon her return was nothing like what I actually got!

Last edited by stumps; 07/08/14 02:50 PM.
H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14