Ox I know that you cant see this but the affair sounds like it may die of its own weight, just let go and let her flounder on her own.

I think you are actually starting to make some progress, but dont backslide, you can't fix her or change her, she must do that on her own.

You dont want her back unless she makes the changes to herself.

This wife, the way she is right now, is NOT what you want.

You want her new and improved version.

She will not change over night, give her the space to improve herself.

OK?


Me-70, D37,S36