Oh come on! FB is nothing but a facade of what people want their life to look like, but it is stupid to let it affect your feelings.
She is experiencing feelings she doesn't like. She is trying to make others believe she is happy with her decisions by posting these "happy" pictures. But you saw the real side when she was sitting at her table in a sad daze.
My advice is to NOT reach out to her at this point of the stitch. No offense to anyone, but extending the olive branch is seen as pursuing in the eyes of the WAS. A WAW must experience this loss of having her H and the family life she had when they were together. How will that happen if you are Johnny on the spot extending an olive branch, soothing her emotions, and being the better person. These sayings all sound sweet, but This not the time. It will simply set your stitch back.
Get your big boy pants on and stop acting like a silly teenage girl over this FB business!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
