Ok so our texting went on till after midnight. She ended it with a "Goodnight!"

The texts were all positive happy things. I had sent her a picture of a bushwhacker I had earlier this evening, and we talked about drinks we liked from one of our vacation spots. She wanted to make one so she did and sent me a pict. You get the gist. She had asked me to run an errand for her when we swapped kids earlier today that she is unable to do because of where she is. She asked me again tonight if I would be able to do it, I said yes, and threw in I would be looking at another school for the kids while I was out doing it. Then she threw me and said she had looked at a school where her parents are as well. 10 days ago she seemed on board with locating here, now it seems that might not be the case. So that was a negative moment. Other than that, everything went well.

Now again, I should be happy for a positive interaction. But since my W had an A and I do not know the status, am I not supposed to have these kinds of interactions until I know it is over?

Any advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16