Phoenix slowly rising

[T-boned]

I had hoped Sandi would stop by here, I wanted to ask her a question about the friend situation for the women who are LBS. I take it the words she gave to Oad about this applies to us women too? Makes total sense. Why should I have to settle for a lesser position or grovel for crumbs? After being disrespected like that??? I think it's just a way for him to be okay with what he has done - clears him of the guilt. If the case were that we had mutually agreed on this divorce, then I say, heck yes, let's be friends.

I think I just answered my own question.