You should not be pissed off. You can ask your W to let you speak to your kids through skype or talking. I doubt your W will deny you access to talk to your kids. It is up to you to keep up with them.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16