She says she's conflicted (part 2)

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you are acting like a spoiled brat.

she kissed you and you whined around because it wasn't how you wanted?
you demand that she do certain things?
you accuse her of cheating after she told you she isn't?
you make snide comments about someone she cares about?
This I get, because when the Affair was only emotional she said my digs about him and her relationship frustrated her.

my aren't you being a prize!!!!

This is where I get confused. Am I supposed to look away. am I supposed to allow her to continue her relationship right under my nose?

I am hearing from some to demand she stops her affair:

Really good friends with her unstable OM. You are actually ok with this?

IMHO, why does she need to be close friend and have friendly meeting with him?

You are ok with that?

And also:

I'm sorry, but your MC is very sketchy to me. I cannot imagine one saying a close friend ship with an affair partner while working on an existing marriage is a good idea. I just can't.

I feel like I am getting so many mixed messages here. Do I try to end her affair or what? Not being angry truly asking for some feedback..

you really need to focus on yourself and not your wife and definitely not the OM