This will go against the grain here but I'll share anyway. I went 7 weeks NC (me initiating with WAW). When I finally did, she was receptive and that's when I noticed she started to increase contact and initiate contact with my mom.
I talked to her today on the phone, she wants to date again! She said that she was always the one in the R to extend the olive branch and that's why she didnt reach out sooner even though she wanted to. She didnt want that to be a part of a new relationship IF we were to reconcile.
That made no sense to me because she LEFT ME. But alas, that is how she feels.
For me, contacting WAW a few weeks ago was a thing I had to do for ME. I was tired of being stuck in paraylsis by analysis. I was either going to make things better or blow them sky high and ruin them. But either way, I needed to do something, anything.
I'm not giving you the green light to start texting her. I just wanted to give you my .02 cents.
I think there comes a time where you need to switch it up and monitor your results. For me, that was 7 weeks NC.
