You decide when YOU are done - not when she is. Until you decide that keep the hope and keep on working you!
I am not up to date on your thread but if you are not familiar with T1000 then look up his threads and read the post from last summer. His WAW was also yelling. As far as I know they ended up D but he got a lot of advice and views from Sandi and other VETs.
It might help you - it might not, but take the time.
All the best F
P.S. As far as I read your post you still stir up some feelings in your W.
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.