Hi, rys, I haven't been coming here very often, and haven't posted for a long time, either. I have from time to time come to check up on those I really got to care about, wondering how they were. I really felt for you, the way you were always so sad much of the time. Trying to figure it all out. I am sorry to see your marriage wasn't saved. I can understand the bitterness you still feel, that your husband will now share what he has with ow. instead of you.

However, I sense a new strength in you, too. I am really glad to see that. You have become a stronger person because of what you have been through, and that will stand you in good stead throughout the years to come.

I am really happy your son is doing well in college. He is just a year behind my son, who will be a senior this fall.

While I am sorry you are now D, I really hope for the best for you in whatever your future holds for you.

L