Funeral for a husband, love lies bleeding

[cczamo]

Thanks, T-boned! ((((to you, too!)))
My D will happen tomorrow if all goes as planned, and I'm absolutely NOT going to court. I have a full day and will think of it like any other day, as TL suggested. To quote her " It's just a piece of paper, and just a regular day."
I hope that can be my mantra, like the other mantra suggested, "may he have all the good things that I wish for myself" and I'll REALLY be saying it over and over again, all day, tomorrow.

And yes, I do think you are right that taking off the bandage quickly is better, but downside is that I'm still off and on in shock about the entire sitch, thinking that I'll just wake myself up from this nightmare!

It's hard when you dont have kids in common with the MLCer, as you dont have much reason to do DB techniques. I suspect that our no "kids group" has much less success with MLCer returning, but that's just a guess. So, I Gal. Yes, my Galing is sometime just going through the motions. But hey! you cant have life give you a new open door, if you dont go stand by any new doors! Right? I'm faking it till I make it. But it's good to know you feel the same way. Sort of a loneliness in the crowd kind of experience.

I'll look into your book, as that is not the one used by DivorceCare. They have their own book which covers points from a video that group watches, then the book has daily homework related to the session of the week.
I think the Rebuilding book youre reading may have been used by TL, though, and I know what ever she used, she mentioned really helped her "do the work." I'm struggling with "doing the work." As I'm struggling with just getting a bucket list.
But absolutely the aurora b is something to see. It is a lifetime experience. I saw on my honeymoon, and I want to see again so I don't have to think of H when I think of the aurora. I hope you do get to see it.

No need to apologize! I'll be keeping an eye on you, too!
(HUGS back to you, T-Boned)

cczamo