If your wife suffered an accident or debilitating illness that precluded her ability to have sex or engage in sexual activity even if she wanted to, would you stay with her?
Yep.
That's not what this is about, but yes, still.
It might not be what this is about... but I think your situation would be well-served if that's how you conceptualized it.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14