The mind reading is difficult . I do it all the time .Just when i think she is warming up to me she goes the opposite ten minutes later . When i think she is gone cold and hard she comes up to me and is warm and friendly . I cant figure her out at all . Which makes me believe in the FOG all the more . If I didnt believe in the FOG we would be done , The thought that she is being influenced by brain chemicals and this A will burn out eventually is keeping me in there . If there was no FOG and no end in sight for the A I would be moving on . She has just cause me too..... much pain and agony through this to forgive her if i didnt believe in the FOG .If the FOG was to clear and she came to me and authentically apologized for what she has done to us and our family and swore to never do it again and be transparent during our rebuilding then i can honestly say i would be ok and we would stay together > I trully believe in my marriage vows and i thought she did too
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
