Got a contact from the W today on the drive home from the in-laws. Apparently her favorite Guinea Pig died today. The kids (especially D15) was freaking out. We talked for a few minutes, and then she had to call back D15.
I said, ok talk to you in a bit, and no call back (it is late where she is at).
I am not pursuing, texting or anything.
The call was cordial, no tension, just talking. Now that I think of it, every conversation we have had for the past 3-4 weeks has been without anger, or frustration from either side. I don't know if that is normal, the conversations are few and far between, but at least we aren't fighting?
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015