Got a contact from the W today on the drive home from the in-laws. Apparently her favorite Guinea Pig died today. The kids (especially D15) was freaking out. We talked for a few minutes, and then she had to call back D15.

I said, ok talk to you in a bit, and no call back (it is late where she is at).

I am not pursuing, texting or anything.

The call was cordial, no tension, just talking. Now that I think of it, every conversation we have had for the past 3-4 weeks has been without anger, or frustration from either side. I don't know if that is normal, the conversations are few and far between, but at least we aren't fighting?


Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015