Long term marriage - husband quit!

[bugsby]

thank you, Maybell. I just don't know if I should tell him this now, or hold off.

I half expect him to file divorce papers this week. Although he wants a "self Kitchen table" divorce, I told him I refuse, and I know who I am and what I believe in, and I was not ready to talk divorce, 30 years vs a few weeks.

I told him he then had to make his choices... I had no control over what he chooses..

I think OW is burring a bright fire under his can.... or he is pushing toward her.
IDK.