I can do it and I find that on the nights he isn't here I am really happy (although s is not) even when he is here I often find that we all (me, s, the dogs) end up congregating in my room laughing and listening to music. H is out there on his own.

But it is hot and the ac works best I'm living room and I want my house back.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15