I think if you keep communication simple and speak in a calm tone, you will be okay. It is certainly possible in your h's volitale state that he could still get angry with you. That's when you say" I won't be spoken to like that" or "we can discuss this when you calm down " and calmly walk out of the room.
You should not feel like you are walking on eggshells in your own home. I'm sorry. That just $vcks. You can do this !!!! :-)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer