Just had a terrible bout of sadness. The ER room callousness is not the first time he has dropped the ball for me. In a big way...

About 2 weeks after BD, a great friend of decades had me take her to U of M for MRI - brain tumors/Parkinsons. Since it was only the test - we kept our chin up.
and talked happily...

As soon as I got home, I fell on the bed sobbing. I lost Mom, Dad all grandparents and brother - before 43.
I don't know how I'll deal with this. Parkinsons is a terrible thing..
My H asked what was the matter, I told him about T***. He said "aw. he was sorry". I begged him to drop the current argument (before I knew of OW) and comfort me. He said "sorry" and just walked out of the room.

I met with T*** last week. Very sad to see her symptoms. She cried with me, because I was talking about WS. I asked her why she was crying - she said;
"I loved WS, too."

I was going to tell him, but #1. he never asked. and #2. at that time, I asked him to call me, he responded in text "Why do I have to call?"
-- I never mentioned it.

Is there such a thing as BS fog? I have heard of it - but don't know where to get info

Last edited by bugsby; 07/07/14 12:43 AM.
Me: 48
H: 48
Married 26 , together 30
D1: 21
D2: 18
"Happily Married" until BD
4 weeks later: "Im talking to someone"
No papers filed.
Attempting 180, finding it difficult.